You’re not the only one.
It’s been quite cold over here the past week. It made me crave for summer. I never told anyone though. Why? Well, let’s see…
I was born and raised in a 4 seasons climate (spring, summer, fall and winter). I love all seasons. As far as I’m concerned they all have their beauties.
However, until mid last year, I had lived in Florida for 4 years. For those who don’t know, it’s summer all year long down there. It’s true that in the winter there’s a chance of some colder weather, but nothing exceptional. And it’s just for a couple of weeks to a month the most.
I hated it! I’m not fond of Florida for various reasons, but for the purpose of this post I’ll limit myself to the weather.
The weird thing is that while, as I said I love all seasons, my favorite one is the summer. However, having summer all year long, just took the fun out of it. I got to the point where I just couldn’t stand it anymore. I was craving cold weather and snow (winter). All of my friends know about my position. That’s why I haven’t told anyone that for the past couple of days I wished it were summer. What? Give them a reason to make fun of me? Get real!
I couldn’t help myself not think about what made me hate my favorite season (summer), crave for winter and now wish it were summer again.
It really bugged me. The first and simplest explanation I thought of was that “it’s human nature; we’re never happy with what we have.” I haven’t ruled that out completely yet and I think I never will. (But about that some other time.)
A couple of days back I was visiting a friend of mine and saw a couple of bananas on his kitchen table. I normally grab one; but this time I didn’t want any. It’s not the first time (it actually happened quite a lot lately), however, for some reason, I made a quick connection between me not wanting any bananas and hating summer for the past few years. I must say there’s a similiraity between the two of them in that bananas are my favorite fruits and normally I never miss a chance to have one.
Why is it that, over time, I’ve lost interest in these two things (which are my favorites in their categories)?
And I kept thinking about it. The more I thought about it, the more examples came to mind.
I soon realized there was a pattern to all of this: whenever I have something I really like in excess, sooner or later I lose interest in it. I realized that the things I enjoy the most in my life I enjoy because I don’t have access to them all the time.
I used to be a TV junkie. The only reason I started hating it was because I was wasting a lot of time. However, there was another thing going on: it seemed as if I wasn’t enjoying a movie or show as many others did, no matter how good they were. Since I managed to unhook myself, I realized that when I do watch a show (which is probably once a week) I really love the heck out of the experience.
When I was in college I used to go out (clubs, parties etc.) at least every other night. I knew all the clubs, bars and pubs in town. I got to the point where when someone would come with the idea of going out I would be like: “Yeah, whatever. Just let me know where you wanna go and I’ll meet you there” without the slightest trail of excitement. These days, when I go out (which is porbably once every two or three months), I feel like the world is mine. I’m worse than a kid going to DisneyLand.
And I could go on forever.
I don’t know about you, but, as I said - for me - when I end up doing, eating etc. something I really love on a constant basis, I loose interest in that thing. I need to hold myself back in order to keep on enjoying them to their greatest extent.
In other words: MODERATION, MODERATION AND SOME MORE MODERATION.